Open Mic Friday! you talk: attraction

Happy Friday, dears and darlings, and welcome to the Open Mic! If you’re new here, on Fridays we get together here for some chat. (Sometimes there’s a guest artist instead.) The topic varies from week to week, but everyone is welcome to participate in the comments.

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Today I’m thinking about crushes and attraction. I’m the first to admit that I have a crush-y sort of personality. I’m easily swept away. My crushes are obsessive, but not necessarily romantic-sexual; I can feel the same consuming fascination for a perfume as I do for an individual, and when it comes to people, I can be excited about someone without wanting to partner with them.

I’ve been thinking about common qualities among the people who fascinate me, and I think I’m beginning to understand what draws me. I observe that it’s not the same for men and for women, so I’d like to pose to you two questions adapted from the Proust Questionnaire:

What qualities do you find most attractive in a man? What qualities attract you most in a woman?

Feel free to interpret attraction however you like: romantic, sexual, intellectual, whatever.

See you in the comments!

 

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